Have you ever been in an open relationship?
What are your thoughts about it?
If your partner asked for this one, will you consent?
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No.
Muslim.
No.
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Nope.
a little douche-y.
Nevaa evaa. Won't even give an answer. automatic breakup
Last edited by Ajcakes (2014-05-12 20:45:21)
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I never liked the idea of it. So, na-uh
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Yes
I didn't like it because there's just no point in doing it because the "relationship" wasnt going anywhere lol (duhhh haha)
No me no likey. I'm selfish
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Nope.
Destroys the meaning of the relationship so why not just break it off?
Nuh-uh. No way.
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chaw wrote [?]:
Yes
I didn't like it because there's just no point in doing it because the "relationship" wasnt going anywhere lol (duhhh haha)
Oh so that's why you guys went with the open relationship.
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Nope.
It makes no sense. How did this even pass as a "relationship?!"
I'm sorry, but nope. Girl gotta think about what she's asking of me. Not going to do it ever.
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No.
Parang it has no point. How is it called a relationship. Just flirt around if you can't settle for just one. 'Wag na idamay the partner. Haha
Hell no. Imma kick that douche's balls if he asks me that.
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Have you ever been in an open relationship?
- I've never been in any serious relationship I kinda hate it
What are your thoughts about it?
- I support it 100% because I think other people are truly capable of loving more than one person and being committed to them. I know a lot of polyamorous people online who have long-lasting multiple concurrent relationships. I've learned a lot from them---especially how to face and fix insecurities and manage jealousy.
If your partner asked for this one, will you consent?
- Nope, non-monogamy is a deal breaker---not because I'm a jealous person or selfish (jealousy can be fixed as well as selfishness), but because I don't have the emotional capacity to have intimate connections with a lot of people due to my extreme introversion, and so I want a partner who's also the same because mono/poly relationship doesn't work well. Compatibility is important.
I've been reading a lot about non-monogamy since last year because I didn't like the idea at first. But after some time I started to see it as a good alternative for people who don't fit monogamy.
I won't hate my partner for wanting it---people change overtime. They may want monogamy at first, but that doesn't guarantee they will still want it in the future. We'll break up, but since I'm sure that my partner will be a well-chosen person, I know that I'll still want to keep her in my life.
Her wanting non-monogamy doesn't mean I become unlovable or 'not enough'. Her wanting non-monogamy is just that---her wanting it.
It has nothing to do with me and my awesomeness, I won't take it personally.
I'll support her.
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