With admiration, you meant staring for quite a long time, right? Then I'd only feel awkward and creeped out esp when it's a strangerrr

mndrl wrote [?]:

With admiration, you meant staring for quite a long time, right? Then I'd only feel awkward and creeped out esp when it's a strangerrr

Yeah! OMG!

chaw wrote [?]:

I don't know hahahha I just say thank you to those who end up liking me. But if I like the guy too, then I might reciprocrate it.

I don't mind the long stares because I do that too. I used to do that to a guy who would keep on staring at me and whenever I catch him, I stare back, long enough for him to turn away or feel intimidated But it's so hard to act normal around my friends when I know one of the group likes me. Most of the time, I just turn the guy down on the spot and make it clear that it's not gonna happen.

Wakakaaaaaaaaaaaaa you did that? You will even scare away a hungry ghost....waaaaaakakakaaaaaa stop it oh goodness sake!

rph wrote [?]:

I won't do anything, look I'm a beautiful guy and I just can't blame them if they can't keep their eyes off me, JUST KIDDIN' but I won't make a big deal about it as long as she's keeping her social distance and not invading my private space then I'm fine with it.

Yeap thats the moz important thin...private space!

Tres wrote [?]:

Different situations call for different reactions

I have experienced being told that I'm being admired and I almost always react the same way: smiling at them (and unconsciously on the verge of blushing) and thanking them. Then to avoid things to be awkward, I compliment them in a harmless way (by definition, no flirting intended) and try to engage a conversation with them whether or not I admire them back.

As for the staring.. I don't mind it too. In my opinion it's the most subtle way to express the admiration or attraction you feel towards a person. Aaaand, it gives really good giddy feelings when you catch someone giving you an admiring stare besides, I stare too. One time I walked into our cafeteria and there were a lot of people (duh) and I caught this girl from the lower year staring at me. I tried to smile at her but she looked away. That happened again a few days after and I got to smile at her before she could look away. She smiled back and it actually felt good.

I'm a sucker for acknowledgments and simple things like this make me happy.

Okay unless the girl doesn't know personal boundaries and how to respect privacy. Then i'm gunna tell her off in the most polite way i could think of.

Wow thankz for sharin your opinion with us! waaaaaakakakaaaaaaaa you could be the next Romeo Sir! I salute you for who you are DWUW!

Flattered.. then, I will be so curious on what he sees in me, what made him feel that way to me.

Flattered and thankful

One time, my friend and I were power walking to school coz we're already late for our class. Suddenly, I heard someone saying "Miss" behind me. Thinking that I dropped something, I turned around to face him. When I turned, he began talking, stuttering, me only catching the words 'cute' and 'number'. I was shocked coz I don't know him, as in he's a total stranger and crazy things were running in my head. I was already thinking of self-defense should he be a bad person. Because I was already fumbling with words, good thing my friend was there to help me and he told the guy that we were already late for school and we power walked again.
      That's why when it comes to strangers, I freeze up and have no reaction at all esp. when guys are the ones who talk to me. But, when I know or am friends with the person, I compliment and tell that I admire him/her as well.

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Yeah. Or if I really don't want him to like me, I'd tell him I'm a lesbian. Sorry HAHHAHAHAHA I tried it once and it worked. But I don't feel so comfortable lying to people about my sexual orientation

mndrl wrote [?]:

I don't mind if people stare at me because they admire me. It is actually flattering. Keyword here is admire. If they stare for another reason, that's when it gets creepy

Yeap thatz whut I mean! ROFL!

ECKAdoodles wrote [?]:

Flattered.. then, I will be so curious on what he sees in me, what made him feel that way to me.

Wow! Thiz is whut we call by love that makez the world go round bb! DWUW!

sj0405 wrote [?]:

when someone stares at me and smile, well I would smile back but a scary stare is a lot different that depends on what level that scary stare is. If he stares at me like he's undressing me, well I'd better run away fast b/c that's no longer a sign of admiration

Wakakakaaaaaaaa you never ever make me stop laughin wont you? waaakakaka thatz an extremely strong humor you've got there! wakakakaaaaa whut you say waz true but watch your steps while runnin Ate SJ! ROFL!

mrjpc07 wrote [?]:

Flattered and thankful

Amen! 

chaw wrote [?]:

Flattered x100000

Hey why not make it to x999999?

michiiella wrote [?]:

One time, my friend and I were power walking to school coz we're already late for our class. Suddenly, I heard someone saying "Miss" behind me. Thinking that I dropped something, I turned around to face him. When I turned, he began talking, stuttering, me only catching the words 'cute' and 'number'. I was shocked coz I don't know him, as in he's a total stranger and crazy things were running in my head. I was already thinking of self-defense should he be a bad person. Because I was already fumbling with words, good thing my friend was there to help me and he told the guy that we were already late for school and we power walked again.
      That's why when it comes to strangers, I freeze up and have no reaction at all esp. when guys are the ones who talk to me. But, when I know or am friends with the person, I compliment and tell that I admire him/her as well.

So start defrostin yourself next time! ROFL!

asawanibatman wrote [?]:

this

well usually i'd just befriend him and show him all my ugly/weird mannerisms so he'd stop liking me HAHAHA

Wakakakaaaaaaa thatz a savin thing...don't you think you're juz to mean? Kiddin! ROFL!

chaw wrote [?]:

Yeah. Or if I really don't want him to like me, I'd tell him I'm a lesbian. Sorry HAHHAHAHAHA I tried it once and it worked. But I don't feel so comfortable lying to people about my sexual orientation

Why Lesbo? waaakakakaaaaa....Chaw you may join Ms Asawanibatman and team up to be a Devil ninja! Kiddin bro! ROFL!

Jea wrote [?]:

This is my problem my prof. do this kind of stuff staring at you wink smile call u every time and even asked my number. I feel awkward but Flattered at the same time but my friends advised me to ignore him, don't be too much showy that I like the attention cuz I might fall for him that kind of stuff and he's my prof    so I did and he gets mad at me   argghh now I'm confused.But I always flirt

Sounds like you enjoyin playin with fire! Kiddin! ROFL! wakakakaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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